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Christian marriage is marked by discipline and self-denial. Christianity does not therefore depreciate marriage, it sanctifies it.     
- Dietrich Bonhoeffer

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Role Of Women


The Bible is many things to many people. Nevertheless Scripture’s primary assertion of being the inerrant and authoritative word of God (in it’s original language and intent) sets it apart from all other literary works. While hotly disputed, there are a growing list of reasons to believe that the Christian faith is not only reasonable but essential when facing life’s ultimate questions.

In regards to the role of women, many passages are no longer in fashion.
Yet the Bible asserts society, and particularly modern Christianity, ignores them at our own peril.


A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.  I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner..


- 1 Timothy 2:11-14 NIV


By way of introduction it should be noted that while the Bible was written within the context of ancient patriarchal societies, it was ahead of it’s time. A fact demonstrated by Scripture’s handling of gender equality vs responsibility through it’s high regard as to the value of women while declaring the foolishness of adopting Dr. Dolittle pushmi pullyu (two headed) style leadership roles.

The following are just a few of the myriad of verses directly and indirectly attesting to the immense
value of the female gender:

  • He created them male and female, and blessed them and named them Mankind at the time they were created.” Genesis 5:2 AMP

  • Deborah was a prophet, the wife of Lappidoth. She was judge over Israel at that time. She held court under Deborah’s Palm between Ramah and Bethel in the hills of Ephraim. The People of Israel went to her in matters of justice.” Judges 4:4-5 MSG

  • Naomi said, “Look, your sister-in-law is going back home to live with her own people and gods; go with her.” But Ruth said, “Don’t force me to leave you; don’t make me go home. Where you go, I go; and where you live, I’ll live. Your people are my people, your God is my god; where you die, I’ll die, and that’s where I’ll be buried, so help me God—not even death itself is going to come between us!” Ruth 1:15-17 MSG

  • Now Elijah the Tishbite, who was of the settlers of Gilead, said to Ahab, “As the Lord, the God of Israel lives, before whom I stand, there shall be neither dew nor rain these years, except by my word…Eventually the brook dried up because of the drought. Then God spoke to him: “Get up and go to Zarephath in Sidon and live there. I’ve instructed a woman who lives there, a widow, to feed you.” 1 Kings 17:1,7-9 MSG

  • Lady Wisdom goes out in the street and shouts. At the town center she makes her speech.” Proverbs 1:20 MSG

  • She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].” Proverbs 31:26 AMP

  • Your wife will bear children as a vine bears grapes, your household lush as a vineyard, The children around your table as fresh and promising as young olive shoots. Stand in awe of God’s Yes. Oh, how he blesses the one who fears God!” Psalms 128:3-4 MSG

  • Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out; you formed me in my mother’s womb.” Psalms 139:13 MSG

  • You’re beautiful from head to toe, my dear love, beautiful beyond compare, absolutely flawless.” Song of Solomon 4:6 MSG

  • Then Esther told them to reply to Mordecai, “Go, gather all the Jews that are present in Susa, and observe a fast for me; do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids also will fast in the same way. Then I will go in to [see] the king [without being summoned], which is against the law; and if I perish, I perish.” Esther 4:15-16 AMP

  • Herod, when he realized that the scholars had tricked him, flew into a rage. He commanded the murder of every little boy two years old and under who lived in Bethlehem and its surrounding hills. (He determined that age from information he’d gotten from the scholars.) That’s when Jeremiah’s sermon was fulfilled: A sound was heard in Ramah, weeping and much lament. Rachel weeping for her children, Rachel refusing all solace, Her children gone, dead and buried.” Matthew 2:6-18 MSG

  • In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Luke 1:26-28 NIV

  • How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?” The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.” Luke 1:34-35 NIV

  • When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit.  In a loud voice she exclaimed: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear! But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy.” Luke 1:41-44 NIV

  • Anna the prophetess was also there, a daughter of Phanuel from the tribe of Asher. She was by now a very old woman. She had been married seven years and a widow for eighty-four. She never left the Temple area, worshiping night and day with her fastings and prayers. At the very time Simeon was praying, she showed up, broke into an anthem of praise to God, and talked about the child to all who were waiting expectantly for the freeing of Jerusalem.” Luke 2:36-38 MSG

  • Then turning toward the woman, He said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I came into your house [but you failed to extend to Me the usual courtesies shown to a guest]; you gave Me no water for My feet, but she has wet My feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair [demonstrating her love]. You gave Me no [welcoming] kiss, but from the moment I came in, she has not ceased to kiss My feet. You did not [even] anoint My head with [ordinary] oil, but she has anointed My feet with [costly and rare] perfume.” Luke 7:44-46 AMP

  • He continued according to plan, traveled to town after town, village after village, preaching God’s kingdom, spreading the Message. The Twelve were with him. There were also some women in their company who had been healed of various evil afflictions and illnesses: Mary, the one called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out; Joanna, wife of Chuza, Herod’s manager; and Susanna—along with many others who used their considerable means to provide for the company.” Luke 8:1-3 MSG

  • Now in Joppa there was a disciple named Tabitha, (which translated into Greek means Dorcas). She was rich in acts of kindness and charity which she continually did. During that time it happened that she became sick and died; and when they had washed her body, they laid it in an upstairs room. Since Lydda was near Joppa, the disciples, hearing that Peter was there, sent two men to him, urging him, “Come to us without delay.” So Peter got up [at once] and went with them. When he arrived, they brought him into the upstairs room; and all the widows stood beside him, weeping and showing [him] all the tunics and robes that Dorcas used to make while she was with them. But Peter sent them all out [of the room] and knelt down and prayed; then turning to the body he said, “Tabitha, arise!” And she opened her eyes, and when she saw Peter, she sat up. And he gave her his hand and helped her up; and then he called in the saints (God’s people) and the widows, and he presented her [to them] alive.” Acts 9:36-41 AMP

  • On the Sabbath, we left the city and went down along the river where we had heard there was to be a prayer meeting. We took our place with the women who had gathered there and talked with them. One woman, Lydia, was from Thyatira and a dealer in expensive textiles, known to be a God-fearing woman. As she listened with intensity to what was being said, the Master gave her a trusting heart—and she believed! After she was baptized, along with everyone in her household, she said in a surge of hospitality, “If you’re confident that I’m in this with you and believe in the Master truly, come home with me and be my guests.” We hesitated, but she wouldn’t take no for an answer.” Acts 16:13-15 MSG

  • A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but woman is the glory of man. 1 Corinthians 11:7 NIV

  • The churches here in western Asia send greetings. Aquila, Priscilla, and the church that meets in their house say hello.” 1 Corinthians 16:9 MSG

  • By faith, barren Sarah was able to become pregnant, old woman as she was at the time, because she believed the One who made a promise would do what he said. That’s how it happened that from one man’s dead and shriveled loins there are now people numbering into the millions.” Hebrews 11:11-12 MSG

  • Women received back their dead by resurrection; and others were tortured [to death], refusing to accept release [offered on the condition of denying their faith], so that they would be resurrected to a better life” Hebrews 11:35 AMP

On a lighter note, when it comes to God’s treatment of women vs. men, an amusing anecdote may be revealing. In the passage above the Arch Angel Gabriel appears to Mary to announce God’s plan to impregnate her with the Messiah. Being a virgin she understandably asks how, to which the mighty angel fully explains. Juxtapose this with the account of the very same Arch angel’s sudden appearance to foretell the birth of John the Baptist to Mary’s very old uncle ministering by candlelight in the intimidating Temple of the Lord:

  • “In the time of Herod king of Judea there was a priest named Zechariah, who belonged to the priestly division of Abijah; his wife Elizabeth was also a descendant of Aaron. Both of them were righteous in the sight of God, observing all the Lord’s commands and decrees blamelessly. But they were childless because Elizabeth was not able to conceive, and they were both very old. Once when Zechariah’s division was on duty and he was serving as priest before God, he was chosen by lot, according to the custom of the priesthood, to go into the temple of the Lord and burn incense. And when the time for the burning of incense came, all the assembled worshipers were praying outside. Then an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing at the right side of the altar of incense. When Zechariah saw him, he was startled and was gripped with fear. But the angel said to him: “Do not be afraid, Zechariah; your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you are to call him John. He will be a joy and delight to you, and many will rejoice because of his birth, for he will be great in the sight of the Lord… Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.” The angel said to him, “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I have been sent to speak to you and to tell you this good news. And now you will be silent and not able to speak until the day this happens, because you did not believe my words, which will come true at their appointed time.” Luke 1:5-15,18 NIV

A young Mary asks a reasonable question to which Gabriel basically responds, “There there honey, let me explain…” The senior citizen Zechariah ambushed by firelight asks an equally logical question and he’s struck mute for nine months :0)

From the moment of
humanity’s original sin in the Garden of Eden, like paradise the harmony between the sexes was lost. For millennia the differentiation between value and role has been blurred (often with Devilish prodding and consequences) frequently to the point of inexpressible animosity and loss. Consider the following Old Testament passage:

  • Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’” “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?” He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.” And he said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate”…” To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband,  and he will rule over you.” Genesis 3:1-12,16 NIV

  • To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you,  and you will eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are  and to dust you will return.” Adam named his wife Eve, because she would become the mother of all the living.” Genesis 3:17-20 NIV

This passage reveals the origin and outcome regarding the source of relational disharmony amongst four key earthly protagonist:
God, Satan, man and woman. So much so the New Testament refers to it numerous times in explaining the how and why Christ, men and women have been assigned our respective positions.


Kingdom Role vs. Value

Before getting into the New Testament’s handling of what may be the most controversial and therefore undiscussed subject of our generation (outside or even inside
today’s Christianity), let’s set the stage by examining the difference regarding the role and value between God the Father and Son:

  • “You’ve been with me all this time, Philip, and you still don’t understand? To see me is to see the Father. So how can you ask, ‘Where is the Father?’ Don’t you believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I speak to you aren’t mere words. I don’t just make them up on my own. The Father who resides in me crafts each word into a divine act.” John 14:9-10 MSG

  • “You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I.” John 14:28 NIV

  • “I can do nothing on my own initiative or authority. Just as I hear, I judge; and My judgment is just (fair, righteous, unbiased), because I do not seek My own will, but only the will of Him who sent Me.” John 5:30 AMP

  • In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself  by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place  and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,   in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:5-11 NIV

Such Scriptures explain that for sake of redemption, as part of the incomparable
cost of atonement, Christ the Son of God sets aside the privilege status of Divinity to assume a submissive leadership role. Why? Foremost, as an example for us. Moreover, it would seem impossible for there to be multi-headed rulership. Certainly not for mankind if not Omnity. Furthermore, Christ's submissive role in no way did, nor by definition every could, diminish the value of Divinity retained by God the Son as the second Person of the Trinity. Even though a case could be made that this leadership arrangement is eternal:

  • For He (the Father) has put all things in subjection under His (Christ’s) feet. But when He says, “All things have been put in subjection [under Christ],” it is clear that He (the Father) who put all things in subjection to Him (Christ) is excepted [since the Father is not in subjection to His own Son]. However, when all things are subjected to Him (Christ), then the Son Himself will also be subjected to the One (the Father) who put all things under Him, so that God may be all in all [manifesting His glory without any opposition, the supreme indwelling and controlling factor of life].” 1 Corinthians 15:27-28 AMP

A similar subordination is found in the Bible’s handling of Christ’s relationship to His Church, some passages mirroring the role of husbands and wives:

  • Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as [a service] to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church, Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything [respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility to God as head of the house].” Ephesians 5:22-24 AMP
The above is just one of many passages emphasizing there can be only one leader in any given relationship. Paul reinforces the value of the church to Christ by addressing the value of wives to husbands:

  • “Husbands, love your wives [seek the highest good for her and surround her with a caring, unselfish love], just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify the church, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word [of God], so that [in turn] He might present the church to Himself in glorious splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy [set apart for God] and blameless. Even so husbands should and are morally obligated to love their own wives as [being in a sense] their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.” Ephesians 5:25-28 AMP

Even as the
true church is the body of Christ, and therefore of infinite worth, so too “he who loves his own wife loves himself.”

Such verses have often been quoted (though less so these days) as well and good. Few worry themselves over what’s become poetic allegory. Yet other passages more directly conveying the role of women in general and wives in particular have been all but ostracized from
modern Christianity:

  • In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate, not as inferior, but out of respect for the responsibilities entrusted to husbands and their accountability to God, and so partnering with them] so that even if some do not obey the word [of God], they may be won over [to Christ] without discussion by the godly lives of their wives, when they see your modest and respectful behavior [together with your devotion and appreciation—love your husband, encourage him, and enjoy him as a blessing from God].” 1 Peter 3:1-2 AMP

  • For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” 1 Peter 3:5-7 NIV

Peter as the chief and married apostle, speaking from both inspiration and experience, explains the kind of reciprocity that is needed within the marriage relationship. Husbands are to be considerate, treating their weaker partners with the respect due fellow heirs of the
grace of God. Wives are to obey their husbands as did Sarah, to the point of calling him “lord.” Strongs Greek Concordance renders the word translated “obey” this way:

  • Obey: ὑπακούω. Cognate: 5219 hypakoúō (from 5259 /hypó, "under" and 191 /akoúō, "hear") – properly, to obey what is heard (literally, "under hearing"). See 5218 (hypakoē). 5219 /hypakoúō ("obey") is acting under the authority of the one speaking, i.e. really listening to the one giving the charge (order). 5219 /hypakoúō ("to hearken, obey") suggests attentively listening, i.e. fully compliant (responsive).

Paul uses the exact same Greek word “obey” in reference to children honoring their parents:

  • Children, obey your parents in the Lord [that is, accept their guidance and discipline as His representatives], for this is right [for obedience teaches wisdom and self-discipline]. Honor [esteem, value as precious] your father and your mother [and be respectful to them]—this is the first commandment with a promise— so that it may be well with you, and that you may have a long life on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with lovingkindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” Ephesians 6:1-4 AMP

Here again there is a reciprocal command to Fathers (parents) to make the most of rather than abuse their authority.

To an important degree Paul extends the role/leadership relationship beyond wives to women in general, particularly those within the church.
Scripture assures that its gender instructions are not antiquated cultural restrictions but rather necessary guidelines for walking in step with the Holy Spirit. One reason for the distinction between man and woman harkens back to the fall. The New Testament also explains that the appropriateness of men and women’s behaviors are implicitly apparent. From the beauty of physical appearance to Christ’s chain of authority. For God's glory’s sake to that of angels:

  • But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.” 1 Corinthians 11:3 NIV

  • But a man should not wear anything on his head when worshiping, for his hat is a sign of subjection to men. God’s glory is man made in his image, and man’s glory is the woman. The first man didn’t come from woman, but the first woman came out of man. And Adam, the first man, was not made for Eve’s benefit, but Eve was made for Adam. So a woman should wear a covering on her head as a sign that she is under man’s authority, a fact for all the angels to notice and rejoice in… But if anyone wants to argue about this, all I can say is that we never teach anything else than this—that a woman should wear a covering when prophesying or praying publicly in the church, and all the churches feel the same way about it.” 1 Corinthians 11:7-10,16 TLB

  • As [is the practice] in all the churches of the saints (God’s people), the women should be silent in the churches, for they are not authorized to speak, but are to take a subordinate place, as the Law says. If there is anything they want to learn [that is, if they have questions about anything being said or taught], they are to ask their own husbands at home; for it is improper for a woman to talk in church. Did the word of the Lord originate from you [Corinthians], or has it come to you only [so that you know best what God requires]? If anyone thinks and claims that he is a prophet [a true spokesman for God] or spiritually astute [filled with and energized by the Holy Spirit], let him recognize that the things which I write to you are the Lord’s commandment. If anyone does not recognize this [that it is a command of the Lord], he is not recognized [by God].” 1 Corinthians 14:33-38 AMP

  • Therefore I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without anger and disputing or quarreling or doubt [in their mind]. Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves modestly and appropriately and discreetly in proper clothing, not with [elaborately] braided hair and gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but instead adorned by good deeds [helping others], as is proper for women who profess to worship God. A woman must quietly receive instruction with all submissiveness. I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet [in the congregation]. For Adam was formed first [by God from the earth], then Eve; and it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman who was led astray and fell into sin. But women will be preserved (saved) through [the pain and dangers of] the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and holiness with self-control and discretion.” 1 Timothy 2:8-15 AMP

  • But as for you, teach the things which are in agreement with sound doctrine [which produces men and women of good character whose lifestyle identifies them as true Christians]. Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in steadfastness [Christlike in character]. Older women similarly are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor addicted to much wine, teaching what is right and good, so that they may encourage the young women to tenderly love their husbands and their children, to be sensible, pure, makers of a home [where God is honored], good-natured, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.” Titus 2:1-5 AMP
The primary purpose for these modest directives are to recognize and reinforce the narrative of Scripture. The Bible proclaims "good news" for all, yet its promises are predicated on its commands. The remarkable free gifts of God are conditional. Including salvation and all that accompanies it. Why? While no longer in vogue, Christianity is a tour of duty, not a pleasure cruise. A cruise ship has few if any regulations or duties. A battleship lives or dies by them.

Scripture's 
context is most certainly one of warfare theology. Like the whodunnit story of Job, considered by many to be the oldest Book of the Bible and perhaps its key codex, conflict between God the "Lord of Hosts" (angel armies) and Satan the "prince and power of the air" (god of this world), provides the backdrop. The same holds true for much, if not all, the entire Old and New Testaments. For this and a plethora of reasons, the content of Scripture can only be fully understood by embracing the Bible's overarching context.

Earth is a besieged planetgenuine Christians are called to invest their time, talent and treasure recruiting, training and deploying Biblically astute Kingdom soldiers. We are called to wrest ourselves, and humanity, from the grip of Heaven's angelic rebellion. An insurrection that, having marred the history of eternity, has and continues to reshape our own.

Through 
Bible study and strategic prayerradical discipleship and disciplined sacrifice, we are required to don the full the armor of God. To understand we "wrestle not with flesh and blood" when struggling to rescue others from Satan's wisdom and demonic resistance, who as "the god of this world" holds mankind "captive to do his will. A likely explanation why one reason Scripture gives for godly male/female gender division and role assignment is, "for all the angels to notice…"

This crucial concern is developed more fully in GB articles such as 
Conflict TheologyContext Then ContentTimes and Seasons, The Evil One and demonic Resistance, as well as Eternity…The Wager (see excerpts Brief History of Eternity and Satan's Accusation). For an excellent example of previous generation's handling of this topic see the Protestant Reformer Martin Luther's hymnal lyrics of "A Might Fortress Is Our God." 


Concerns and Objections

Such New Testament teachings
raise a multitude of objections, the quantity and quality of which have all but muzzled any honest rendering of the above passages. Even in light of the Holy Spirit’s warning through the Paul, the great apostle of grace, that those ignoring this issue would themselves be ignored by God (which would explain a lot).


1. Is this simply a cultural concern or bias? Not according to Scripture which repeatedly reinforces that the same rule applies to all the churches and for the same reasons, none of which are cultural. In fact, from the first church council in Jerusalem as recorded in the Book of Acts, almost nothing from the Jewish culture was brought forward into the predominately Gentile church. Furthermore, the Bible explains that the Holy Spirit is ultimately the source of Scripture. Omnipotent and Omniscient, the Author provided the miraculous grace and inspiration necessary for a handful of extremely righteous men to write the Word of God in such a way as to uniquely relevant throughout all ages. Particularly given humanity's population would swell from the millions into the billions as centuries became millenia. As for male bias, as previously explained, differing roles apply to each of the members of the Trinity, Christ and His church. A hierarch reflected in human relationships.


2. Why should wives, much less all women, be subordinate to men? Scripture forwards both spiritual and practical reasons. These include Adam being created first with Eve as his helpmate. Eve’s deception initiating the fall of mankind. Women being both the fairer and weaker gender. Man being the glory of God. Woman being the glory of man.


3. Why should Eve’s sin extend to her entire gender? The question of nature vs. nurture is a hot topic both scientifically and socially. Regardless of the unfortunate adoption of situational ethics and the redefining of morality, Truth is not the average of social opinion. While there are glaring exceptions to the rule, Scripture maintains there is a fundamental deceptability among women. We are told that while Eve was deceived by Satan, Adam was not, rather choosing his wife over God’s word. Perhaps an all too common malady today?


4. Why should women remain silent in the church? For reasons already given and for order within the church, the Bible asserts the leadership role of women to be subordinate to that of men. In a world as needy as ours, with temptation and deception, worldliness and sin growing ever more ubiquitous, there are a myriad of other ways women can and should be of immense and invaluable service.


5. Should women wear a head covering when praying? The Holy Spirit, through the Apostle Paul, says yes. In fact, while the quote from the Biblical paraphrase version above stipulates "in public" many other more authoritative and direct translations do not. These include the NKJV, NIV, NASB etc. Thus it appears that both publicly and privately, men are to pray without head coverings, while women are required to pray with their head and hair covered.

This universal command is nearly universally ignored. Nevertheless, Jesus and Paul warned against the yeast of even small doctrinal errors. Paul explained, "It only takes a minute amount of yeast, you know, to permeate an entire loaf of bread." A truth made all the more obvious by today's new sociopolitical era.

Consider the progressive explosion of
immorality on a global scale. The approval of birth control pills, many which are forms of contraceptive abortion, transformed the lifestyles of women, giving birth to the 60' sexual revolution. The pressure of media driven cultural promiscuity encouraged the legalization of abortion on demand. Next came no fault divorce, and in turn cohabitation without marriage. Homosexuality led to same sex marriage. Finally, nonsensical and unscientific transgenderism declared the line defining male and female was as arbitrary as the momentary choice of self identification. The old adage is true, "Once a camel gets his nose in the tent, his body will soon follow."


6. What role(s) do women have in Biblical Christianity? On our watch, since the sexual revolution of the 60’s morality has literally been inverted. This includes a nearly universal lack of the kind of modesty of which the New Testament demands. Furthermore, no one is teaching the kind of marital submission Peter and Paul insist is a necessary requirement of Biblical Christianity. In fact, the proliferation of the so called women’s liberation movement has produced an escalation of fornication and abortion, cohabitation and divorce among the most blessed yet morally disobedient children in human history. Tens of millions of them our own with nary a regularly schedule Praying Parents meeting to be found.

Consider just the spiritual ramifications of over a
billion clinical abortions (10 times the planet’s entire population in Christ’s day) on not only society but the church, particularly in regards to salvation and prayer, worship and communion. Not to mention the universal ignorance and participation in contraceptive abortifacients by Christian mothers, daughters, granddaughters… All this while 99.9% of church attending women (and men) could hardly be described as being authentically pro-life. These are the very areas in which the New Testament requires women to take the leadership role. To continue not to seriously respond to such an endless list of spiritual and social needs within every community and throughout the world may be tantamount to betraying both the female gender and call of Christ.


7. How should wives of imperfect men respond? Peter explains that wives of disobedient husbands are to win over their spouses “without a word” by their godly and unwavering submission and respect for the marriage partnership. How much more of this kind of honor is due, yet so often withheld, from truly Christian husbands?


8. How should wives (or husbands) in abusive relationships respond? Paul explains that one of the overarching principals for insisting on leadership roles within the church and marital union is God’s call to peace for individuals and families. This being the case, Scripture does not require believers to remain in relationships were a spouse no longer wishes to participate equitably.

  • But if the unbelieving partner leaves, let him leave. In such cases the [remaining] brother or sister is not [spiritually or morally] bound. But God has called us to peace.” 1 Corinthians 1:15 AMP

Tragically, Scriptures mandate on both the value and roles of women is as clear as is the fact that at least the latter is all but universally ignored. While reasons abound, the problem is primarily the growing predomination of
another kind of wisdom permeating modern life within and without the halls of contemporary Christianity.

The entire Bible’s context and content warn of two competing wisdoms. The first originates from below and is secular, unspiritual and demonic:

  • “Who among you is wise and intelligent? Let him by his good conduct show his [good] deeds with the gentleness and humility of true wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not be arrogant, and [as a result] be in defiance of the truth. This [superficial] wisdom is not that which comes down from above, but is earthly (secular), natural (unspiritual), even demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder [unrest, rebellion] and every evil thing and morally degrading practice.” James 3:13-16 AMP

The second is from above and is pure, loving and good:

  • “But the wisdom from above is first pure [morally and spiritually undefiled], then peace-loving [courteous, considerate], gentle, reasonable [and willing to listen], full of compassion and good fruits. It is unwavering, without [self-righteous] hypocrisy [and self-serving guile]. And the seed whose fruit is righteousness (spiritual maturity) is sown in peace by those who make peace [by actively encouraging goodwill between individuals].” James 3:17-18 AMP

While offering many insights, the salient points of this passage are these:


1. Two wisdoms: While each side denigrates the other as foolishness, in point of fact they are both wisdom from their respective points of view. The first, being from below (worldly and/or demonic) reasons as if life is merely temporal and thus contains no spiritual concerns. The second, being from above (heavenly) reasons life is both temporal and eternal with glorious or hellish everlasting consequences for every one of us as individuals and families, churches and society.


2. Competing wisdoms: Both wisdoms are vying for our attention and dedication and as such cannot live in harmony or be integrated:

  • No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon [money, possessions, fame, status, or whatever is valued more than the Lord].” Matthew 6:24 AMP

  • “Do not be unequally bound together with unbelievers [do not make mismatched alliances with them, inconsistent with your faith]. For what partnership can righteousness have with lawlessness? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and Belial (Satan)? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols?” 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 AMP

While few if any Christians will admit it, to the degree we deviate in doctrine and/or practice from the Scripture’s commands we are submitting to the wisdom from below.
Well meaning or not, almost all of Christendom is off page and thus in danger of being off line in regards to the role of women within the church and marriage commitment. And if we are so Biblically illiterate and spiritually insensitive in this regard, what other deal breakers might we be missing?


Practical Observations

Cleary tens of thousands of seminary graduates haven’t simply overlooked such passages. For practical and/or liberal theological reasons
Churchianity on mass has decided to either reinterpret their obvious meanings or sidestep the issue entirely. This fits nicely into the observation of Søren Kierkegaard the amazing 19th century "Danish philosopher, theologian, poet, social critic, and religious author who is widely considered to be the first existentialist philosopher. He wrote critical texts on organized religion, Christendom, morality, ethics, psychology and philosophy of religion" - Wikipedia:

  • “The matter is quite simple. The bible is very easy to understand. But we Christians are a bunch of scheming swindlers. We pretend to be unable to understand it because we know very well that the minute we understand, we are obliged to act accordingly. Take any words in the New Testament and forget everything except pledging yourself to act accordingly. My God, you will say, if I do that my whole life will be ruined. How would I ever get on in the world? Herein lies the real place of Christian scholarship. Christian scholarship is the Church’s prodigious invention to defend itself against the Bible, to ensure that we can continue to be good Christians without the Bible coming too close. Oh, priceless scholarship, what would we do without you? Dreadful it is to fall into the hands of the living God. Yes it is even dreadful to be alone with the New Testament.

While understandable, it may not be hyperbole to suggest that our current treatment (or lack thereof) with respect to the Biblical role of women and wives, particularly within the church,
ranks among the top 5 mistakes of modern Christianity. A few of the more obvious results are the following:


1. Marital Disunity: Dr. Dolittle pushmi pullyu (two headed) style leadership is unbiblical and generally untenable.


2. Family Disharmony: The lack of satisfying and sustainable marriage relationships trickles down into many aspects of family life. From sour grapes to verbal fights and worse, Bible study and prayers are hindered while hundreds of millions of children are not being raised in the required fear and admonition of the Lord.


3. Divorce: The threat and reality of fault and no fault divorce has recently become a tragic and universal fact. The consequences of this crumbing foundation on post Christian society have far reaching deleterious effects including contributing to what passes as the “new normal” of family life. In “His Needs Her NeedsDr. William Harley of Marriage Builders identifies the reciprocal top ten male and female needs initially gathered from interviews with thousands of divorcing couples. While far from the kind of Biblical gender roles discussed in this article, his honest and precise insights are nonetheless invaluable on a practical level.


4. Worldliness: The Holy Spirit explains that while marriage is a sacred institution with a variety of benefits, by it’s very nature at best it promotes divided loyalties. At worst it fosters entitlement and worldliness:

  • But I want you to be free from concern. The unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but the married man is concerned about worldly things, how he may please his wife, and his interests are divided. The unmarried woman or the virgin is concerned about the matters of the Lord, how to be holy and set apart both in body and in spirit; but a married woman is concerned about worldly things, how she may please her husband. Now I say this for your own benefit; not to restrict you, but to promote what is appropriate and secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 AMP

Regrettably the
distractions and blessings of modern life have secularized Christianity, undermining the understanding of marriage commitments. Kicking against the goads of marital submission, pleasing one’s wife often usurps the dedication required of Christian men. As in the story of Adam and Eve, the disobedience of one contributes to that of the other. Were the situation reversed, Godly wives would provide genuine encouragement for husbands to more deeply invest their time and talent in eternal rather than temporal affairs.


5.
Immorality: One of Scripture’s most basic tenants concerning marriage is sexual fulfillment with each spouse contributing to the chastity of the other. In the case of women this includes keeping themselves as attractive during marriage as they advertised during courtship, providing a hedge of peace and protection. As Paul points out:

  • Now, getting down to the questions you asked in your letter to me. First, Is it a good thing to have sexual relations? Certainly—but only within a certain context. It’s good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it’s for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I’m not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them.” 1 Corinthians 7:1-6 MSG

Given the only sexuality sanctioned by Scripture is between a justly wed man and woman,
marriage is a sacred trust meeting a need that no other person on earth can rightfully fulfill. With the proliferation of what would once have been considered soft porn advertisements and media, men in particular are targets of multi billion dollar campaigns designed to arouse and stimulate ungodly desires. This frustration is compounded by wives more interested in worldly gains or other entitlement issues and thus pleasing themselves than in pleasing and protecting their husbands. While wives experience sexual frustration, often to a lessor degree, Scripture clarifies that the woman is the glory (joyful happiness, beauty and resting place) of man in the same way children and family have so often held glorious appeal to women.


6. Resentment: In light of the problems already mentioned it’s easy to see how “roots of bitterness” can and do take hold within marriages and families. Festering over years and decades, they often “defile many” inwardly and outwardly in ways both public and private. Too frequently they are passed on within families and by misinformed friendships throughout whole societies growing ever more virulent from generation to generation.


7. Sentimentality: The dissolution of genuine and caring Christian patriarchy (not to be confused with Islam) has infected every aspect of society including church philosophy and practice. Critical thinking and insistence on obedience, thankfulness and productivity and the vital place of radical discipleship have sadly been replaced by more feminine forms of touchy feely sentimentality. This has lead to a crucial misunderstanding of a host of key issues including assumed salvation, acceptable worship and Christian fellowship.


What makes this problem and many others so intractable is the inescapable fact that we are all
telling ourselves a story. From leaders of extreme and even militant women’s liberation movements to mild manner church attenders, we all live within the bubble of our own narrative which is often isolated from a fully Biblical world view. Much less in harmony with the context of Scripture. An awareness which affords an appropriate response to the escalating challenges of the times and season in which we live.

A familiar passage in Proverbs goes a long way in describing the
quantumly spiritual/social role of particularly married women. It reveals the interplay and exchange of the virtue of hard work and subservience crowned by accomplishment and praise:

  • "A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long. She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing. She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises. She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day. She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden. First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started. She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day. She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking. She’s quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor. She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear. She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks. Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers. She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops. Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile. When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly. She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive. Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise: “Many women have done wonderful things, but you’ve outclassed them all!” Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised  is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God. Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!" Proverbs 31:10-31 MSG

Proverbs 31 offers a lengthy description in praise of the virtuous woman. Yet for better and worse this passage opens with, A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.” More telling still, how exemplary can a woman (marriage, family, church or society) be without submitting to the roles God has preordained and communicated in no uncertain terms?

This wonderful womanly portrayal is unique in Scripture. There is no counterpart for husbands, children… A fact testifying of its fundamental importance. Furthermore, while the characterization is amazing in and of itself, it should be noted that the passage was likely
written in the time of Solomon. Long before the miracles of the incarnation and atonement of Christ, Pentecost and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit. With the promised infilling of the fruit and gifts of the Spirit, proving for a previously unknown transformation into entirely New Creations, might the New Testament offer even greater opportunity for feminine virtue and glory while maintaining the requirements of humility and submission required and exemplified by Jesus and His apostles?

All this raises the question of just how long
modern Christianity will continue to be spiritually insensitive, mistaking presumption for faith in such a crucial area as the role of women? How shall we arrest our free fall from grace if we continue failing to heed Paul’s clear and crucial warning in this regard, "Women should remain silent in the church… If anyone thinks they are a prophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let them acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord’s command. But if anyone ignores this, they will themselves be ignored."


8. Propriety: Simply put, the female form is not only beautiful but desirable. All the more when its curves and contours are revealed and featured by modern dress. Given that women's bathing suits were ankle length for most of human history, and knee length just 100 years ago, one can only imagine Paul's chagrin at most dresses and pant suits, not to mention painted on jeans and yoga pants worn to churches, much less shopping malls and gyms. This includes, but is certainly not limited to, female worship leaders.

This concern is all the more salient in the modern world where temptation and immorality, entitlement and worldliness is nothing short of a global pandemic. Not only spiritually but socially. Eroding, if not all together eliminating, the foundations of both modern forms of society and Christianity. A dilemma so drastic in nature and scope as to necessitate a reformation in thought and attitude, dress and behavior. For all concerned. Men and women, teens and children. In this case dress includes jeans which are designed to accentuate the female form in ways anathema to New Testament persons and authors, including Christ who warned, "Temptations are inevitable, but what sorrow awaits the person who does the tempting.”

Finally, few equate Scripture's mandated gender roles and regulation with the full extent of modern decimation of traditional family and society. Yet, the 
1960's sexual revolution and abortion, the rise of militant homosexuality and transgenderism are all both cause and effect of rejecting the full authority and supremacy of God's Word.



Author’s Note

The above article denotes the Bible’s handling of the role of Christian women and wives in particular. As with any principle or rule, there are exceptions. Deborah, previously mentioned is a good example. The Book of Judges explains that she was a prophetess and a judge in Israel prior to their demanding a king. During one of many periods of sin:

  • “The Lord sold them into the hands of the Jabin king of Canaan.” After twenty years of oppression God’s people cried out and through Deborah He sent word to Barak that the time of deliverance was at hand. Afraid to go alone, Barak asked the prophetess to accompany him to which she replied, “I will certainly go with you; nevertheless, the journey that you are about to take will not be for your honor and glory, because the Lord will sell Sisera into the hand of a woman.”

The woman to whom she referred was Jael who killed Sisera the commander of the Canaanites by secretly hammering a tent peg into his skull as he slept.
In this case, both Deborah and Jael assumed leadership roles in the vacuum created by a lack of willing men of faith.

A story often repeated throughout history. And a vacuum growing all too deep and wide…
For an amazing modern example see Jackie Pullinger (click here for an excellent short YouTube video).

Unfortunately, such examples are far and away the exceptions that prove the rule. In the overwhelming majority of homes and churches, neither men nor women are truly cognizant of their God assigned roles, much less fulfilling their Kingdom Citizen Soldier responsibilities as radical disciples.

It's clear that being unwilling to receive the Holy Spirit's spiritual discipline, moving us toward greater levels of obedience and training, we remain mired in an impasse, rather than submitting to and experiencing the transformation into holy and glorious New Creation's Scripture offers and requires. As Solomon lamented long ago:

  • "But the wisdom I’ve looked for I haven’t found. I didn’t find one man or woman in a thousand worth my while. Yet I did spot one ray of light in this murk: God made men and women true and upright; we’re the ones who’ve made a mess of things." Ecclesiastes 7:29 MSG
In line with the Bible's woeful prophesies regarding the last days, conditions are worsening. Nevertheless, recovering Biblical family and church leadership roles are vital. More today than ever. Yet we continue family and church business as usual.

In conjunction with the previously mentioned Dr. Dolittle 
pushmi pullyu (two headed) style leadership roles analogy, there is another equally telling and troubling example:

Consider entering marriage and raising a family as paddling in a canoe. Prior to embarking, both parties are largely free to come and go as they please. Once having chosen to traverse the river of life together, they face certain realities. Should the husband and/or father be wise, he will set a direction and speed. But what if the wife and/or mother disagrees, spending 25% of the her time rowing in unity, 25% refusing to row, 25% rowing in the wrong direction and 25% berating her husband with her oar? This not infrequent scenario spells trouble, if not disaster, for everyone, including their children who will likely continue the cycle as things go from bad to worse.

This is plainly the case. Just take a long look at the dismantling and destruction of the nuclear family and church hierarchy, traditions once strengthening society, now aflame in a fire-sale. Biblical mandates and opportunities sold cheep in exchange
for a disastrous, if not demonic, new sociopolitical order.

Since unleashing the
1960's sexual revolution and abortion, the rise of militant homosexuality and transgenderism, the implementation of the Covid-19 plandemic and the Great Reset, who can reasonably deny that society and our Christian cruise ships are sinking? If not already sunk. Yet we have, and continue to do, next to nothing. Churchianity has been and remains in a paralysis of leadership. Preaching and teaching, encouraging and singing, "peace, peace when there is no peace." Even in the face of unprecedented growing and global peril.

Modern Christendom can be accurately divided into two groups. Those taught to
work and play, pray and worship, fellowship and live as largely distracted civilians; and those recognizing the Bible's call to become Kingdom citizen soldiers.

While you won't find it taught in seminaries or churches, Conflict Theology is actually the underlying context of Scripture. Widely recognized for nearly two thousand years, the modern world long ago changed course, sailing far from puritanical definitions of repentance and morality, faith and discipleship, sanctification and holiness. The result has been the nearly wholesale substitution of assumed salvation for repentance, presumption for faith and inappropriate worship for sanctification.

Decades old, the increase of
temptation and deception, has resulted in a devilishly cunning strategy of incrementalism that over time has all but uprooted millennia of spiritual and sociological gains. Part and parcel of the dramatic and disastrous deterioration in the Times and Seasons in which we live, and vastly worse on the horizon. Evidence of the spirit of the Antichrist terraforming the entire planet for the beginning of Divine judgment and Great Tribulation.

At what may well be the
end of the pseudo Christian/American dream, it's high time we did better. All GodBlog articles are designed to enlighten and motivate modern believers to become Prophetic Christians for this very purpose. And while extremely controversial and continually rejected, it can't be overstated that the Holy Spirit, who is the source of all Scripture, warns in no uncertain terms that those who ignore this role assignment will themselves be ignored by God!

This is no vain or idle threat by an ambiguous and unimportantly Person of the Trinity.

Limiting the Holy Spirit through unbelief and/or doctrine is costly. Both here and in eternity. Relegating the Third Person of the Trinity to all but mythical status is modern Christianity primary mistake. The same error the Book of Acts declares that Ananias and Sapphira made.

The Ruach Elohim, Hebrew: רוח אלוהים meaning the Breath, Wind or Spirit of God is one of the many names and descriptions of the Holy Spirit. Growth in understanding and sensitivity to the The Third Person of the Trinity is not only essential to Biblical Christianity, but is the source from which it springs.

From the Incarnation to the words and works of Jesus, the Holy Spirit played a leading role. From the birth of the Church at Pentecost, to the inspiration of Scripture, the Spirit of God's Fruit and GiftsPower and Presence have been the cornerstone of Christendom. Even so, for a variety of reasons, no member of the Godhead has been more often misunderstood and marginalized.

Far from simply a force for good, or a lessor part of the Trinity, in many ways the Holy Spirit is the architect and sustainer of Christianity. From start to finish. He is the originator of Scripture and the implanter of Christ in Mary's womb. The descending anointing at Jesus' baptism and His guide in the wilderness. He is the inspiration of the words Christ, empowering His signs and wonders. He raises Christ from the dead and is Pentecost's explosive heavenly fire. He is the indweller of Christian believers. He is the first fruits of Heaven and the seal of promised glory.

It is this Self Same Holy Spirit with which we principally have to do. In His hand is the rod of correction and reproof applied to the Church. In His mouth is the whistle of the Coach and the commands of the Drill Instructor. As Jesus declared in His last communique to all seven of Revelation's churches, Are your ears awake? Listen. Listen to the Wind Words, the Spirit blowing through the churches.

Billions who have and/or continue to ignore and/or push back
against the goads, offering pointless resistance against this Biblical mandate do well to note the Holy Spirit chose Paul to issue the decree. Rightly considered the Apostle of Grace, his own brokenness and repentance, willingness and obedience transformed him from Saul to Paul. From the chief of sinners to the greatest apostle. Qualifying him to become the most prolific New Testament author, as well the principal apostle us, the Gentile world. Thus making Paul the second most influential person in human history. All this was done, according to Paul himself, that we might follow his example.

At this
late hour, should we do so, might something similar be said of us?



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